Wanna play a game?
Wanna play a game?! Yeah you do!
I try to ask at least 3 questions before I start talking about myself its a little game I play to help me connect better with a person I am meeting with. I find that by just asking 3 questions I am able to hold a conversation that lasts an hour or more.
People want to talk and share about themselves and I am perfectly fine with listening to them I know that by just listening and affirming I am building something much deeper then chit chat. I don’t want just chit chat I want to know a person and be a friend.
You are going to find it super hard to not bring yourself into the convo while asking your questions but I promise you its worth it!
Play the game and let me know how it works!